There are countless articles and websites filled with information on how to overcome sexual issues. The truth is, they're probably not. They're likely grappling with the same sexual issues you are. So take heart.
I want you to do something. Make a list in your head of the marriages you've seen that you actually like. How many married couples can you think of that have a thriving marriage -- a good, happy, alive marriage -- the kind of marriage that makes other people want to get married? I've tried this question on many people. Most people can come up with only one or two examples of strong, lively, and attractive marriages.
Men, you need to come up with your own ideas for how to date your wife. You know your wife better than anyone else. Only you know how to best care for the woman God has given you. Look these ideas over. Act on some of them this month, and let these ideas spur your own creativity for how to help your wife and your marriage flourish.