Have you heard the good news that 40 is the new 20? Time for celebration for all those who just celebrated their 40 th with some trepidation and gloom. More so if you are single and had internally resigned yourself to a life sans any romance. Read on if you fall in this category. For several reasons these days, marriages are not as secure as they used to be.
10 Signs You Need to Put Yourself Out There More When Dating
6 Tips For Putting Yourself Out There When You Don't Know How
Check out the gatherings within your spiritual group or with the hobbies you love. Conferences, seminars, lectures, conventions, and trade shows are all possible places to meet people. Activities in all these areas are usually planned in advance, so make an agreement with a friend to go together. Knock yourself out being friendly when you get there, and do the following:. Do a scan. Use every opportunity to make new friends.
Putting yourself out there: dating when you’re reserved
But, are you out there with the right intentions for romance? Being positive, proactive and enthusiastic helps, right? The dating mindset is no different. You need to break free from a preconditioned, victim-like mentality in order to attract the outcome you want. This means jumping in with both feet, ready to hit the ground running.
However, that doesn't mean that you should avoid putting yourself out there at all costs. Quite the opposite actually! The only way to form real, deep and meaningful connections, to get exactly what you want and need, and to grow as a person is to put yourself out there.